Welcome to the many adventures of the Cartwright family.

Monday, August 18, 2014

Weekend Developments

This weekend was a busy one for Ben learning new things.  He has been crawling like mad for about a month now.  He has also been super interested in Dagger since, well, forever.  He loves her.  Now he knows he can chase her around, which to him is the greatest game ever.  I would say Dagger doesn't like it very much, but she keeps hanging around while he does it.  If she hated it I would think she would go upstairs, or get up on the couch where he can't get her.  She did have one retreat spot where she could observe, but not be touched.  This weekend, that spot was infiltrated.  Ben figured out how to climb up our bottom step.  

Dagger is not pleased with this development.  She loves that step.  She keeps her toys there.  She can relax there on the carpet instead of the wood.  It's nice and close to her food.  She can easily see downstairs, but run upstairs should danger present itself.  Now, the grabby one can get to her.  She isn't giving it up.  I actually hope she will occasionally.  Currently she just subjects herself to the always gentle petting of an almost one year.  (Note the sarcasm there.)  I understand it was Dagger's spot first.  She has a right to have her own places where she likes to be.  She is an important part of our family, and I don't want her to feel pushed out because of Ben.  On the other hand, she still has plenty of places where Ben can't reach.  I really hope she learns to move out of the way soon.  Until then she is being sweet and just whining loudly when Ben gets on her step.  We let him climb up, then quickly relocate him somewhere safer.

The other development was actually found this morning.  I went in to check on Ben and found this.


Things are getting pretty interesting in the Cartwright house. :)

 -Kim

Friday, August 15, 2014

One on one pictures

Well, I promised to post more of the pictures from our professional photo session.  There are a lot, so I'm going to break it down into a few posts.  This first has pictures of Ben one on one with each Pat and me.  We got a bunch of good ones with Pat, and a few with me.  I am pretty pleased with how they turned out.






More to come soon!
 -Kim

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Sneak Peek

This past weekend Pat, Ben, and I had family pictures taken for Ben's first birthday!  I don't have them all yet, but we used a great photographer posted a few for us.  We used Susan Sauer Photography.  Susan was very open to all my ideas and really listened to what I wanted.  Plus she has kids and is really great at getting them to look at the camera.  Plus she was very flexible to work with, which is awesome since I try to stick to Ben's schedule as much as possible.

This is just a taste.  I think they look good and I can't wait to see the rest!




 -Kim

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Junior Accountant

Ben works very hard at our office.  He has many jobs.  He makes sure clients are greeted when they come to visit, provided it isn't nap or independent playtime.  He makes sure everyone has fun at lunch.  He provides plenty of toys for the waiting area.  He also entertains special clients while everyone else is working.  A couple of weeks ago, one of our most important clients stopped by.  Pat had a few free moments and was able to come see us.  Ben did a great job of handling this important client meeting.

My boys in blue!
Wonder where Ben gets it...
Reading up on the latest info
Explaining taxes to Daddy
Ben's a good teacher
Happy baby accountant!
 -Kim

Monday, August 11, 2014

Scarf Fun

The leader at Baby Goose has brought out scarves for the kids to play with a couple of times.  Ben is sometimes into it, sometimes not so much.  I'm always trying to think of new toys or games for him to play while at the office.  I have a ton of scarves, so I brought one to work for him to play with.  He enjoyed it!  It was way bigger than the ones we use at Baby Goose, so this is a heavily supervised activity only.  It was adorable to watch him roll around with it and get all wrapped up.  He had a lot of fun, and then didn't seem to mind going about his playing with a scarf wrapped all around him.

I, of course, took a ton of pictures.  Here is the little fashionable dude.  

This looks like fun
What can I do with is?
Sweet feet
Pretty comfy

Yummy ball.
How do I get out of it?
I love that little grin.
 -Kim

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Swimming and Sharks

Another week, another swim lesson!!  Ben is doing really well with his swim lessons.  No, he isn't really learning any strokes or anything.  He is getting really comfortable in the water though!  He has even gone under the water a few times!  He doesn't quite know what to make of that, but he isn't upset by it or anything.  Go Ben!  This week sadly Pat had to work, but Meo and Omi were able to come along and cheer Ben on.

For August, the weather has been a little chilly.  Chilly might be too strong of a word.  Not ridiculously hot might be a better choice.  I for one love that, but for swimming with a baby it is a little cooler out.  The water was a bit cold when we first got in, and Ben was a little unsure about that.  Well, he quickly stopped fussing when the teachers came over to see him.  Oh yes, my little almost one year old already knows how to turn on the charm for the ladies.  Silly guy.  :)  It really cheered him up and he sailed through the rest of the lesson.
Ready to swim!
Showing off for the teacher
Your turn for a hug, Meo!
This week is another big milestone in Ben's life.  Baby's First Shark Week!  We think Ben is a little too young for Sharknado and Sharknado 2: The Second One.  Pat and I really enjoyed them, and we plan to show Ben when he is old enough to appreciate them.  We plan to discuss sharks at length to teach Ben all about them.  Well, we'll talk about sharks a little.  Either way, Ben is pretty pumped for Shark Week!

Duuuuun, dun... Duuuun, dun...
Duuun, Dun... Duun, Dun...
Shark Week!!!

The end of August is going to bring a lot of busy times.  Last swim lesson, visitors, birthday party, more visitors...  We're going to enjoy shark week before things get too crazy!

 -Kim

Friday, August 8, 2014

Breastfeeding and Money Saving

I know, another breastfeeding post.  What can I say?  I read a lot of parenting sites and blogs and breastfeeding awareness is all over them right now.  Besides the health benefits for mom and baby, there is another reason why I think breastfeeding is best.  For Pat and I, it was a pretty big reason.

It's cheaper.

Yes, we make a number of parenting decisions based on cost.  Not all, but if all other things are equal, we go for the cheapest option.  Now, notice I said breastfeeding is cheaper.  It isn't as free as we would like to think.  Oh sure, it could be.  All you need is you and the baby.  Realistically it takes a few more items than that.  I think I managed to find ways to not spend too much money on breastfeeding accessories, so I thought I would pass on a couple tips to anyone who may want to read them.

If you aren't interested, here is a cute picture of Ben peeking out of his crib.  I promise to update on his latest shenanigans soon.
I see you!


On to the tips:

1.  Breast pumps.  Breast pumps are supposed to be supplied by insurance now.  Honestly, I have no idea how this works exactly.  This came about after Ben was born.  I'm sure like most things with insurance this means some people get awesome pumps, some not so much.  It is possible to get pumps used.  I was lucky enough to get one from a friend of my cousin.  Now yes, this voids any warranties on the pumps.  It is considered a medical device and therefore single person use.  You sterilize all the parts before you use it though, so if it is something you are comfortable with, try to purchase a used one or get one from someone who is finished with theirs.  I was able to get extra parts from my sister in law as well.  Score!

2.  Nursing bras and tanks.  I personally found nursing bras and tanks to be, well, a waste.  When you first start nursing it is so much easier and better to just have skin to skin with your baby, so you end up taking everything off anyway.   A really good nursing bra can be expensive.  Same with nursing tanks.  I found it worked just as well to use bras and tanks I already had and just pull them out of the way.  Yes, this does stretch them out over time.  But personally I wear tanks to layer almost every day, so I tend to purchase new ones every year or so.  Getting new ones after my breastfeeding ones are stretched out isn't an additional purchase.  Also, I didn't want to spend too much money on items I know I would only need for a short period of time.  After nursing almost everyone needs a few new bras and clothing items.  I would rather save my money for ones that I will hopefully wear for a longer period of time than I am nursing.

3.  Breast pads.  Now, this will not work for all women.  Some women leak a lot, some not so much.  I looked into breast pads, and they can add up quick.  This alternative is going to sound a little, iffy I guess could be a word.  But here it is- paper towels.  Yep, I just folded up paper towels and put those in my bra.  With a thicker bra you can't tell by looking.  If I had to look nice or wanted to be extra sure I wouldn't leak, the pads are best.  For just hanging around the house and not wanting to be a mess?  Paper towels work for a lot less money.

4.  Lotions, lanolin, etc.  I got samples of these items at practically every baby event I went to.  Prenatal classes, BabiesRUs events, hospital tour.  They all offered little samples of nipple creams and lotions.  Grab as many of those as you can.   Then wait and see if you need more or prefer a certain type.

5.  Milk storage.  I am fortunate that I am able to nurse Ben ninety nine percent of the time.  I don't have to worry about storing a lot of milk for him to have when I'm not around.  I did want to have some in the freezer so I would have the option to bottle feed him if the need arose.  Instead of spending money on milk storage bags, I got some ice cube trays and froze them in little cubes.  Fill the tray and pop them in the freezer for a few hours until frozen.  Then take them out of the tray, wrap them in freezer wrap, and store them in freezer bags.  It is a few extra steps, but it is cheaper than buying milk storage bags.  One big thing here is that this probably only works if you don't bottle feed very often.  Cubes of milk are a lot bulkier in your freezer than the bags which can store flat.  The cubes also only give you approximate measurements.  It worked well for us though.

These are the biggest things I found that helped save us even more money while breastfeeding.  I hope this can be useful to anyone who is looking to save some money while breastfeeding.  I know I am using this post to help myself remember these things if Pat and I decide to have a second child.  Any little bit of savings can help, especially with all the costs a baby brings.If anyone has any additional ideas or tips, please let me know!

 -Kim