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Monday, October 31, 2016

Happy Birthday, Meo!

Happy birthday to Meo!  We're sorry we can't celebrate with you in person.  These three little ones love you so much and miss you!

We love you, Meo!
This sweet boy misses you too!

Happy Birthday!  Thank you for being such a great mom and grandma!

-Kim

October 2016 Book List

This month I read two books from the same author, Rick Riordan.  One was the second in a series and one was the start of a new spin off series.  I love these books and this author.  This month I am going to highlight these series.  I don't want to recap too much and give a lot a way.  But trust me, these are great books for all ages.  Yes, they are technically young adult.  But I started reading them just before Ben was born and I have enjoyed them all.

These books all follow the same idea- the ancient gods exist and are still around today.  Of course ancient evil exists too and the gods alone can't keep it at bay, they need the help of teen demigods.  (Why do such powerful entities need the help of teens?  Who knows.  It does seem silly, but hey, they are good stories.)

Percy Jackson & the Olympians is the first series.  It centers around Percy Jackson, a son of Poseidon and a place called Camp Half-Blood.  Camp Half-Blood is a safe place for children of the Greek gods to live and train.  A prophecy is given that sends Percy and some friends on a trek to save the world.  (There is a big theme of saving the world in all these series.  Apparently we are all in jeopardy a lot. :P )

The Heroes of Olympus carries on after Percy's initial story.  In this series we learn that not only are the Greek gods around and active, their Roman counterparts are as well.  (And yes, the series talks about how that is possible.)  We meet demigods from Camp Jupiter, Camp Half-Blood's Roman counterpart.  The new journey to save the world is even bigger than the last and has more great characters.

The Kane Chronicles is its own series, although it does allude to the Olympians briefly.  (And there are some crossover stories.)  These books are told a little differently, they are the transcripts from a brother and sister.   Their father is an egyptologist who goes missing.  While trying to find him Carter and Sadie learn that they are descendants from a long line of powerful magicians.  They have to learn to use their magic to help save the world.

Magnus Chase and the Gods of Asgard is one of the newest series out right now, it is on book two.  This series centers around the ancient Norse gods.  Magnus is actually the cousin of one of the main characters from the Percy Jackson stories.  I really liked these as I did not know much about Norse mythology, besides of course what I've seen from the Thor movies.  (I'm thinking that isn't enough to say I knew much about it.)  Yes, they have to work to save the world again.  (Okay, I am simplifying it a bit.  The world isn't always in total peril in these books, but more or less things will go very very badly for the planet if the main characters don't step in and save the day.)  Spoiler alert- there are hints at the end of the second book that some of the Greek demigods are going to play a bigger part in future books!

The final book I read this month was The Trials of Apollo.  Apollo falls to earth as a human and has to find a way to redeem himself to regain his godly status.  We end up back at Camp Half-Blood.  New forces are gathering to try to cause trouble for the demigods and the world in general.  Only one book in this series is out already.  Characters from the Olympians make a comeback at the end, which I think is very exciting.

So why do I like these books so much?  The biggest thing is that they are fun.  They are exciting and full of action.  You can read them on their own, but if you read all the series you get to learn more and more about how they all fit together.  (It can get a bit confusing how all these ancient deities are still operating at the same time.) I really can't wait for Ben, Ali, and Sammy to be big enough to read these as a family.  I think these books are fun for adults, but really great for kids.  They are chock full of mythology.  This might not seem like an area kids need to know a lot about, but it does actually play in to a lot of arenas.  First of all, it is history.  Yes, it might be viewed as just a bunch of stories.  But they are the stories of cultures.  They tell what different groups of people in history have valued, how they related to each other, and how they viewed the world around them.  The gods in these books are imperfect, and this gives a good opening to discussions about character and how to handle strengths and weaknesses.  Mythology plays into a lot of literary illusions and great works, so a working knowledge of it can be very helpful.  Beyond the mythology the books have a ton of lessons on team work, sacrifice, and finding your way in life.  Important lessons that I am looking forward to sharing with my kids.  I view these books as 'keepers.'  I love to own books, but try to limit myself so as not to overrun our home with books.  These books are ones that I want to invest in to reread again, with the kids and on my own.  I really recommend them to everyone.  (And yes, these links are affiliate links.  All these opinions are completely my own.  I really do love these books this much.)


-Kim

Thursday, October 27, 2016

Easy dinner staples to keep on hand (and how to use them)

Dinner.  It rears its head every night.  Overall I enjoy cooking.  I find it fun and relaxing.  But that does not mean that every night I am jumping at the chance to make something.  There are days that are crazy and I am just looking to get something on the table fast.  On those nights I am happy I keep some basic staples on hand that I can throw together in a couple different combos to suit my family's tastes for that night.



The main idea is pretty simple.  Grab a protein you have on hand.  Pick a grain to go with it.  Then get any vegetable you happen to have available.  Top it off with the seasoning of your choice.  It sounds simple. And it is!  But I think sometimes we get wrapped up in feeling like we need to put together something exciting, new, and fancy.  The truth is, we don't.  You need something that fits the food groups, fills you up, and tastes good.  I can whip up a dinner in about twenty minutes as long as I keep some of these main basics on hand.

Here are my staples and some ideas to go with them.

Proteins:
Ground meat- turkey, beef, chicken, Italian sausage.  These options defrost pretty quickly, and cook up super fast.  I buy them on sale and just keep them in my freezer.  Ground turkey is healthier, and seriously once it is mixed in with other stuff you don't notice that it isn't always as flavorful as beef.  If you want instant seasoning for no work the Italian sausage is where it's at.  You can buy it as the sausages and slice the casing off to get it as loose meat.  This is a good thing to remember if they are on sale.

Turkey kielbasa- or regular kielbasa.  I like the turkey because it is a little healthier.  This is a good one because it can defrost in about thirty minutes.  They are generally already fully cooked, so you just have to worry about heating them.  Tons of flavor, and easy to cut into small pieces for little hands.

Thin cut pork chops- Sometimes you don't want to have a casserole or mixed up dinner, you want to feel like you have a more traditional meal.  They take about 10 minutes in the oven.  Nice and fast while you whip up a side dish.

Eggs- When in doubt, throw and egg on it.  Scrambles, omelets, egg casseroles.  Tasty protein a lot of kids enjoy.  And who doesn't love breakfast for dinner?  Filling and cheap.

Vegetables:
Diced tomatoes- You can get these with seasons or just tomatoes.  It adds moisture and flavor to all sorts of mixes.

Canned green beans- We love canned green beans.  You can find them for less than fifty cents a can most places.  Open up the can, drain and rinse, microwave for one minute and you have a vegetable.  Fastest one I can make.

Frozen bell peppers- I like to buy these frozen because of how long they last!  They cook up quickly and add a some color to any dinner.

Frozen cauliflower and broccoli- Easy to cook on the stove and in the microwave.  You can buy broccoli cuts and chopped broccoli to add to skillet meals and casseroles without chopping.  The florets are great with a little (or a lot in our house) cheese sprinkled on top.

Frozen peas- Again, easy for little fingers to grab and eat.  They also mix in nicely with skillet meals.  Or microwave for a side on their own.

Grains:
Brown rice- I like the minute version.  Ready to eat in less than ten minutes and perfect to mix into one bowl meals.

Noodles- regular and egg- Noodles don't have to just be for traditional spaghetti dishes!  They go great with any protein and vegetable.  (And yes, that includes eggs!  Try a fried egg over noodles with a little cheese.  Not sure how healthy it is, but it sure tastes good!)  Egg noodles cook up quickly and go well with casserole type dishes too.

Tortillas- There are always tacos and quesadillas.  But take any meat and vegetable, put it in a tortilla, and you have a filling fun meal!  Add rice to bulk it up a bit more.  Breakfast burritos are yummy.  You can use tortillas and salsa instead of noodles and tomato sauce to make a Mexican-like lasagna.

Other:
Shredded cheese- Any kind you like works.  This is something that is often on sale, so I stock up a bit.  Cheese always makes things taste yummy.

Sour cream- Honestly this isn't always something I have on hand.  But if I know dinners will be rushed during the week and I plan on doing some sort of wrap I like to grab a small container.  It is also good to stir a little bit into skillet meals to add creaminess.

Worcestershire sauce- I have the hardest time pronouncing this one but it adds fast flavor to a variety of dishes.  You can get low sodium versions.  A few splashes really adds depth to dishes.

Onion powder- yes, real onion is better,  If I remember I get frozen diced onions.  Even faster is to grab the onion powder.  Even when you don't want an onion-y taste this adds a little something more to make dinner tasty.  Plus if you have little ones the actual pieces of onion can be offensive.  Get the flavor without the pieces.

Great, we have the ingredients and some ideas.  But examples always help.

Try cooking up some ground meat.  Toss in a frozen vegetable of your choice, along with some onion and garlic powder.  Cook some minute rice.  When the rice is done add it to the skillet with the meat and vegetables.  Serve as is or use a tortilla to make wraps.  You can add a dollop of sour cream or a sprinkle of cheese to add a little extra tastiness.

You can also cook up some noodles.  While those are going cut of some kielbasa and add to a pan.  Put some frozen bell peppers in and heat up together.  Add the cooked noodles and some Parmesan cheese to have a tasty pasta dish.

Season some thin cut pork chops with a little salt and pepper and cook up in a 350 oven for about 10 minutes.  While that is going cook up some minute rice.  Last minute open a can of green beans and microwave them for a minute.

Scramble up some eggs, add some frozen chopped broccoli, and use a tortilla for a burrito.  If you have leftover potato from a previous meal you can make a great skillet.  Omelettes or just 'scrambled eggs wtih stuff' as I call messed up omelettes always taste great, no matter the time of day.

These are just a few ideas.  The great part about these meals is you can customize them to your family's tastes.  There are no real rules, and they are actually pretty hard to mess up.  Add a fruit to the table and you have a pretty well rounded meal.  That's the most important thing.  Healthy food fast with minimal time spent.

-Kim

Be sure to check out all the ladies of the BFBN today as we tackle dinner challenges!

Chronicles of a Babywise Mom-Favorite Fall Recipes
Mama's Organized Chaos- Quick Dinner Ideas: Gluten, Dairy, Egg, and Soy Free
The Journey of Parenthood-Why I Love My Slow Cooker
Twinning Babywise- How to Make Any Dinner a Quick One
Wiley Adventures- Our Favorite Quick Dinners




Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Rocking out

Because sometimes you just need to rock out.


I have to say, he has some decent rhythm.  The girls seemed to enjoy his impromptu concert as well.  I was worried the loud noises would startle them, but they thought it was great fun.


The kid rocked out so hard he actually broke one of his drumsticks.  Good thing we had extras.  (And that you can get more at the dollar store.)


Despite obviously being a hard core rocker, he is still my sweet boy.  When he was done he brought me the pans and spoons and said thank you.  


I love my little drummer!

-Kim

Monday, October 24, 2016

Nine month update

Nine months.  I like the nine month milestone.  I think it is interesting to think that, in general, at this point babies have spent as much time out in the world as they did in the womb.  It is amazing how much they have grown and developed in such a short amount of time.  It makes me a little nostalgic for the pregnant time with them, but I like having them here on the outside with me so much more.  These two little girls are such a gift in our lives.  I am so lucky to have them as my daughters.

The girls are still on the go all the time.  No hands and knees crawling yet.  I keep thinking they are on the verge of getting it.  They get up and rock back and forth.  But army crawling is really working for them, so it isn't like they can't get anywhere they want.  And they are fast!  Seriously, they can take off after something they want and get to it in no time.  I've started gating the play area a bit so they can't sneak off and get into trouble.  Ben has been helpful in letting me know when they start crawling.  He calls out, "She's getting away!"  It is so cute.  They are just so curious and interested in everything around them!

Ali and Sammy are doing so well with solids.  They are super messy.  That is to be expected of course, but they have gotten the hang of eating.  They seem to enjoy pretty much anything they get to eat.  I think that is pretty normal at this stage.  I am happy they eat all sorts of vegetables, but I know it time they will start having preferences and it won't be so easy.  So far banana pancakes, guaca-hummus, bananas, and peas are faves.  Interestingly, neither Ali or Sammy seem very into green beans.  This wouldn't be a big deal except Ben was the same way.  From the first time he tried them he would not eat green beans.  Funny sibling pattern there.  We started having them use sippy cups this month as well.  They enjoyed playing with the bottles, but weren't really drinking a ton from them.  I decided that instead of fighting with them to learn to use the bottle properly and then switching to the sippy, we would just go straight to the cup.  It is working!  It took some practice, but they are getting it down now.  Sammy especially likes to try to hold it herself, which is so cute!  Ali is a little more content to let me hold it for her.  I like that they are getting better at drinking water.  It makes me feel better when we go out and about on hot days that I can help keep them hydrated with water.

The girls love to talk to each other.  They are big on taking toys from each other.  Sometimes they don't seem to care, but other times I already have to referee sister fights.  They are constantly taking pacifiers from each other.  It can be pretty funny to watch actually.  It doesn't matter if one already has a pacifier, she will try to grab her sister's if they get too close together.  Sisters, huh?  They are starting to play with Ben, and Ben is liking it!  It is the sweetest thing ever.  He lies down on the floor with them and they crawl around him.  Ben likes when they try to crawl over him, and it is funny to watch.  Sammy and Ali just watch him and giggle and smile when he plays with them.  We are still working on sharing toys, but I think Ben is doing pretty well.  The girls love getting out of the house.  They still spend most of our outings in the stroller, but they enjoy watching what is going on around them.

They both have two teeth!  They look so cute when they smile.  They are both still nursing well, though Sammy had a bit of a bite-y day a week or so ago.  That was not fun for anyone involved.  We worked through it though, and she is doing better.  Sammy was the first of the two to start waving!  Ali waves now too, but Sammy does it a lot.  It is so sweet!  I love that they wave to us.  They both adore their lovies.  What is interesting is that they really tend to ignore each others and focus only on their own.  Ali knows the bunny is hers and Sammy knows the monkey is hers.  They both want their specific lovie and go to it for comfort, even if that means going right past the other one.  I like that they find such comfort in these objects.

Sleep is going pretty well.  They do have some naps that aren't the best if they get overtired.  I know, that should be something I can control a bit.  But sometimes naps have to be shortened for life to take place.  At least I know this happens and I can plan ahead to really focus on them when they may be overtired.  At least they sleep at night well.  I can handle the occasional bad nap a lot better than an all night awake fest.  Overall I still cannot complain about these two.  They are champs that do their best to sleep well.

Sammy still tends to be a bit quieter than Ali.  That is relative with these two.  She is often happy to play with toys on her own.  She will explore the play area and seek out things to do by herself.  She is a little bit of a neater eater.  Again, that is relative.  She really looks at her tray and seems to focus on the task at hand.  She likes to do things herself.  She tries to hold her sippy herself, and looks very proud of herself when she accomplishes something new.  Ali is my little shadow.  She is most likely to follow me around.  She likes to interact with others.  She is determined.  When she wants something she has a laser focus on it, and can be surprisingly patient in working towards her goals.  She does get a little louder when displeased.  She eats with gusto- meal times and fun and messy.  She doesn't mind letting me hold her cups for her.  She wants to be where the action is.

Both girls are still little cuddle bunnies.  They are so happy to be held and are often seeking attention.  They love to giggle and smile.  They light up when Pat gets home from work.  They adore their big brother.  They make me laugh with their antics and interactions.  I love watching all three kids play together and enjoy themselves.  I am so lucky to have these great kids.

Ali!  Always such a big smile.
Sammy!  Such a happy girl.
I love watching these three play.
Happy to be on the go!!
Sammy and Ali, my sweet loves.

I can't get over how amazing it is to watch these two little girls grow and learn, not just on their own but together.  Add to that the joy of watching Ben with them and I am one happy and lucky mother.  I never get tired of saying it- I love Ali and Sammy!

-Kim

Friday, October 21, 2016

Nine months!

Nine months!  Three quarters of the first year has already gone by.  How does it always go so fast?  Sammy and Ali are nine months old today.  They are loving life and we are loving life with them!!

My sweet girls!  (Sammy (L) Ali (R))

Thanks to Auntie Laura for helping with the sign.  I love using it to help give perspective on how much the girls have grown and of course to note how old they are.  It is tricky to do with curious little babies!  Even one at a time it was a little hard.

Ali wouldn't even look at me when the sign was out.

Focused, just not on the camera
Sammy did try to help me out a bit.  

That is Sammy back there
And both of them together?  Forget it, it was all about grabbing the paper and getting it from each other!
I don't stand a chance.
They quickly got tired of my trying to make them look at me and smile.

I feel like they are telling each other to stay strong, we're almost done. :)
We did get a couple of good ones though.

Alison!
Samantha!
Sam and Ali
These girls are so wonderful.  They are busy, happy, giggly, fun ladies who bring us happiness each and every day.  We are so lucky to have them!!  We love you so much, Sammy and Ali.  Thank you for being you!

-Kim




Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Sprinkler fun

I admit the weather around here is really throwing me off.  I am used to it being in the sixties and seventies around this time of year.  Dipping into the fifties somethings and hitting the eighties is normal.  But consistent upper eighties and nineties in October?  Kind of crazy.  Good, don't get me wrong.  But very different.

This past week Ben, Ali, Sammy and I went to story time at the library.  On our way out the sprinklers were going.  Ben looked at them longingly, and I was about to tell him no.  But hey, you're only three once.  He should live it up.

Yep, mid October and playing in the sprinklers.  Very strange for us, but we'll take it. :)  I wanted to get in there and run around with him, but Ali and Sammy were in the stroller, so I had to stay with them.  They aren't super in to getting wet outside of the bath.  Ben loved getting a chance to frolic in the water!






 I had one happy little boy, which makes for one happy mommy.

-Kim

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

How to: Baby Mrs. Potato Head Costume

I love the idea of making my kids' Halloween costumes.  I would gladly make anything they wanted to be....  if I had the time, money, and skill.  Time and money are something that I don't really have to spend a ton of on Halloween costumes.  Skill, well, I'd like to continue thinking I have that. (Though realistically not so much:P ) What I wanted this Halloween was something easy, cute, and pretty cheap to make for the girls.  I think I found a pretty good one with Mrs. Potato Head.  Here is how easy it is to make.



First up, I had to get some brown onesies.  This is something you definitely could just have on hand.
 My girls didn't happen to have any, so I ordered some.

Two day shipping for the win. I got the 6-12 month size and they fit the girls pretty well now at almost 9 months.    I also ordered some felt.  You can get felt at a craft store of course.  I have some from the dollar store, but I liked the stiffness of these felt stickers.


I think it gives the costume more of a, well, costume feel to it.  Mrs. Potato Head has the plastic pieces that stick out and away from the body of the potato, and I wanted the pieces to do the same here.  The great thing about this costume is you can use any brown onesie and whatever material you happen to have around for the pieces.  

Once I had my materials I simply cut out shapes for the face.  I looked around on pinterest to get some inspiration, but honestly I just did it freehand.  Another great thing about this costume is that it doesn't have to look perfect.  The girls aren't very big, so I kept to just eyes, nose, mouth, and a hat.  If I were to make this for a bigger kid I might do more, like ears or glasses or something.


Once I had all my pieces cut out I used velcro so they could be attached to the costume, but still be removed and rearranged like a real Mrs. Potato Head.


A few notes about the costume.  I made sure to put the softer part of the velcro on the onesie.  This way if the girls are crawling around they won't stick to the carpet as much.  The crawling thing.  The girls are still army crawling, so honestly I am not entirely sure how well the pieces will stay on.  But if they are in their seats or being held I think it will work out just fine.  I also want to keep an eye on the girls that they don't eat the pieces.  The felt is stiff, which should help them from getting it into their mouths enough to swallow it.  But I will be watching the girls closely while they wear these just in case.

Overall, I think they look super cute.  Yes, I need to keep an eye on the girls while they wear them, but why would I leave them alone in the costume anyway?  I wouldn't.  Overall it only took about half an hour to make two baby costumes, and I was watching tv while I did it.  Pretty good for a homemade costume.

Here is what I used to make these. 
               


I hope this can help out another mom looking for a quick costume as Halloween approaches.  I can't wait to see the girls in them.  They are going to be so cute!!

-Kim

Friday, October 14, 2016

Dentist

I know we are a little late in doing this first, but Ben had his first dentist appointment last week!!  Yes, I know the current recommendation is first tooth or one year.  When Ben was a baby I read the recommendation was to wait until kids were three to go to the dentist.  Now, I don't know where I read that, but that is what I was operating under.  Then I heard it was much earlier than that.  Oops, mom fail.  Oh well.  I wanted to get him in sooner, but with my tried and true excuse of having twins (yep, using it forever) and then the move (yep, using it as long as possible) we just didn't get it done.  I am almost glad though, because we have a pediatric dentist less than five minutes from our new place!  Score!

We tried hard to get Ben pumped up for the dentist.  We practiced looking in his mouth.  We talked about how important it is to have clean teeth and why we brush.  He was actually excited about the appointment I think.

Ready to go to the dentist!
 Ben was great in the waiting room.  He tried out every chair in the place, of course.  They had toys, which of course made it an amazing place.
Excited to be there!
Yay toys!
The girls were very happy to be cheering on their brother.  Soon enough it will be their turn!
Sammy!
Ali!
I didn't take any pictures during the actual exam.  Ben did okay with everything.  He was very excited to charge back there and sit in the big chair when they called him back.  The plan was to start with x-rays.  Ben wasn't a big fan of the lead cape he had to wear, and really wasn't liking the x-ray machine in his face.  The big thing that set him off though was when one of the techs wheeled the girls around the corner so they wouldn't be in the room for the x-rays.  I could see them the whole time, but Ben couldn't.  He did not like that his sisters went away.  He kept yelling, "Bring them back!  Bring sisters back!"  It was actually very sweet that he was worried about where they were going.  He is a really good big brother and so protective of them.  But he did get a bit worked up, so we decided to skip the x-rays.

At this point Ben was ready to be done with the dentist, but he had just gotten started.  He still did really well.  Yes, he yelled a bit, but he did let the hygienist and the dentist do what they needed to do.  He was a real trooper about it.  As soon as he was able to get down he was asking to go home.  Then the hygienist asked him if he wanted a prize he perked right back up.  He was so excited to get his new toothbrush.  He got to pick out a toy, he chose a yo-yo.  He also got a shark tooth necklace!  Okay, it is plastic, but he loves it and looks so cute with it.

Thumbs up to be finished!
Prizes!
I am proud of how Ben did.  I assumed there would be some tears.  It can be scary to sit there and let someone look in your mouth.  Heck, most adults don't like the dentist, and this was all new to Ben.  I love that he was so protective of his sisters.  And I love how proud of himself he was for going to the dentist.  I think when we go back he will do even better.  Fortunately he has clean, healthy teeth, so that won't be for six months.
Proud little boy with clean teeth!
He is just getting so big!  I am so proud of him.  I love this sweet boy.

-Kim