Welcome to the many adventures of the Cartwright family.

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Big News

He's been Batman, Superman, and Captain America.  This February, Ben takes on his biggest mission yet- Big Brother!

We have already announced on Facebook, but now it is blog confirmed, Ben is becoming a big brother!  And not just to one little sibling, but two!  Yes, we were very surprised to learn late last week that it appears that we are expecting twins.  We did not see that coming, but luckily for us we have Aunt Lindsay to guide us through preparing for twins.  I am so grateful that we have our own expert in the family.  Thank you in advance for all your wisdom, Aunt Lindsay!

We are very excited for this new addition to our family.  The new little ones are due in early February.  There will be a lot of big changes around here to get ready, but we are excited for the challenges ahead.  Despite what I think is the normal freaking out over the idea of two babies at once, we are embracing the excitement and joy that two babies will bring.  I am sure they will bring more happiness and love than we can imagine now.

I think Ben is going to be an amazing big brother, and I am so excited to be going on this journey with him.  You are wonderful, Ben!

-Kim

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Bigger little pool

Last year Gramma and Grampa got Ben a pool to swim at home.  This year we finally got around to setting it up.  And yes of course, Ben loved it.  We are only pulling it out when we can use it both weekend days.  The thing is quite big and takes a lot of water to fill up.  This means it is a lot of water to dump out to put away.  But Ben had a blast.  He gets in and doesn't want to get out.  He doesn't want to just play alone, he keeps pointing at Pat and me until we get in the pool too.  

I managed to get some pictures when Pat was in with him.  I don't trust myself to have the camera too close to the water.  Get used to these swimming pictures, I'll be taking them every weekend for the foreseeable future. :)








-Kim

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Tiny office manager

The other day I looked up and saw Ben walking around the office holding his toy tablet like this.


He would look at a toy, then glance down at his tablet, poking around on it a bit.  I think he was taking some sort of inventory, but I'm not entirely sure.


He was very busy, and he was very serious about it.  Everything appeared to be in order though, as he soon went back to playing.


Good thing we have a dedicated office manager to keep this place in line!

-Kim

Monday, June 29, 2015

Little pool

 Meo and Omi found a little pool for Ben to play in!  I think it's a good way to get us to bring Ben over to their place more. ;)  We tried it out for the first time on Father's Day.  Ben adored it!!  He loved that he could get in and out on his own, and that is was just his size.  He could sit in it, and practice putting his face in.  We all sat on the deck with Ben playing in his pool, happy as can be.  Plus, since the pool is so small it is easy to fill and empty.  I think it's going to be a summer staple and Meo and Omi's.

Yep, Tupperware for the win!
Belly flop!









Daddy got in on the fun!

Ben is just so happy when he is swimming!  I love it.  Be ready for a few more months of swimming pictures- it's Ben's favorite!

-Kim

Friday, June 26, 2015

Swimming with Daddy!

On Father's Day Pat jumped in the pool with Ben for his swim lesson!  Ben is getting a lot more comfortable in the water.  He didn't fuss or complain at all this time, he hopped right in.  He even put his face in several times!  He is really turning into a little water bug!  Both guys did a great job and had a lot of fun.  






Happy guys!

Ben looked back to make sure Meo, Omi, and I were watching a lot, but he was a lot more focused this week!  I loved watching my boys bond in the water.  Can't wait for all the swimming opportunities to come!

-Kim

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Healthy eating balanced with summer fun (BFBN)

Today the ladies of the Babywise Friendly Blog Network (BFBN) are all posting tips and ideas for summers with kids.  I'm talking about one of my favorite things- food.  Summer is a great time for food.  Grilling hot dogs, ice cream at the river, and let's not forget all the festivals.  Pat and I adore that stuff.  Anything crazy or new or deep fried- we want to try it.  Now, this is not really the healthiest course of action.  We know this as adults, and try to balance out these 'fun' foods with healthier fare.  We want to share our love of fun summer foods with Ben, but also teach him how to balance it with healthy foods.  There are a few main ways we try to do this during the busy summer months.

Gotta keep this little eater healthy!
Eat Healthy While at Home
I know this sounds obvious.  But after a long summer day filled with work or fun, the last thing most of us want to do is figure out what to cook for dinner.  I stick to meal planning so I have a guide for the week.  My summer go-to when I don't want to cook much- grilling.  Grilling is a great option.  We can play outside while Pat cooks for us.  Grilled meats thrown on a salad is a no-brainer healthy meal.   Corn on the cob is plentiful around these parts.  Hobo packets can be filled with anything and prepped the night before.  Slow cooker stews can still be good in the summer.  It isn't always what you might think of on a hot summer day.  But anything that helps me get dinner on the table is a good thing.  Tacos are a great quick meal, and so are pastas with vegetables.

For Ben, normal healthy eating means good proteins, smoothies, fresh fruit, and pouches.  I make his pouches myself so I know exactly what is in them.  We are trying to get him to eat veggies as is, but, well, you can imagine how that works most of the time.  I try to ninja  vegetables into everything I can with him.  He has a smoothie and a pouch almost every day, so I know I can get at least a couple servings of veggies in him that way.

We also try to keep a ton of fresh fruit in the house.  Ben adores it.  Watching him eat it gets Pat and I to eat more as well.  The prices are lower in the summer, so I tend to stock up.  Whatever I think we won't eat I pop in the freezer to use in smoothies and pouches.

Plan for Success on the Go
I try to plan ahead as much as possible.  Summers are busy times, but I have to take a diaper bag with me everywhere and adding a couple of snacks to it isn't very hard.  Raisins are an easy one.  Apricots travel well and don't have the added sugar a lot of dried fruits have.  You can take dates, peanut butter, and oats to make a date bar to go.  Again pouches are awesome.  In the summer I don't put any yogurt in them, so they can last longer out of the fridge.  I freeze them, and they do double duty as an ice pack.  Pretzels are a treat for Ben that are easy to stick in your bag and not worry about.  I also make sure to bring a couple of water bottles with us so we can always have a healthy drink.  With these options I can make sure that Ben has some sort of good for him option to eat.

Sometimes you find yourself out and you haven't packed food for the kid.  Well, that isn't too hard either.  Pretty much every fast food restaurant, and really almost any restaurant has some sort of grilled chicken.  It could be a sandwich or on a salad, but it's there.  Ben will always eat grilled chicken.  Pair it with any fruit the place has and you are good to go.

Enjoy Yourself!
Finally, we enjoy ourselves over the summer.  We try to keep to healthy eating 80-90% of the time.  That means when we go to festivals and bbqs we can relax a little.  I try to look for not too terrible options at these sorts of events, but honestly the terrible for you food is part of the fun!  We are trying to teach Ben to enjoy food while still being healthy, so yes, we let him try a bunch of stuff too.  The key is to try to keep only to things you can't get at home.  I don't mind the occasional funnel cake because I know we only have one or two a year.  And yes, we try some of the strange deep fried concoctions.  We don't deep fry at home, meaning it is for sure a special treat.  I try to enjoy the treats and not beat myself up over it.  True, we sometimes eat more unhealthy things than we should at these events.  But we usually complement them with more hiking, swimming, and physical play as well.

Enjoying a balance of healthy food, tasty treats, and dancing!

Overall, we aim for healthy food whenever possible.  But we want to enjoy ourselves as well.  I think we are on our way to finding a decent balance between the two.

What other healthy summer eating tips do you have?  Feel free to share them with me!

-Kim

Be sure to check out the other ladies today as they post about summer with kids.



Amy Schlichter
Apffel a Day
Chronicles of a Babywise Mom
Faithfully Infertile
Giving it Grace
The Journey of Parenthood
The Moses Home
My Devising
Team Cartwright
Wiley Adventures

You can also check out the pinterest board BFBN Pinterest to see lots of great tips!


Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Prairie Fest!

This past weekend we went to Prairie Fest!  We did it a little differently than we have in past years.  This year we went early Friday morning and spend the whole morning there.  It was great!  We used to go on Friday afternoon/evening or on Saturday.  Friday morning is all about the little kids.  We started off at the touch a truck.  We got there really early and it was pretty quiet.  Ben was a bit overwhelmed by seeing all the trucks up close.  He enjoyed himself, we could tell because he didn't cry or say he was all done or anything.  But he wasn't comfortable getting on any of the trucks.  That was fine, we knew he would enjoy just seeing them up close.  He did enjoy walking up and down one that had a ramp.  We took a few pictures, but Ben wasn't really feeling it.  The fire truck was handing out hats.  Ben has been rocking that around the house lately.

After the trucks, we wandered through the rides and games.  They weren't running yet, and honestly it could have been a bit creepy if it wasn't a perfect sunny day.  Ben liked walking around and looking at all the bright colors.  We checked out the petting zoo.  Ben did so well!  I was worried he would be scared.  I was a little nervous when I was kneeling down and animals were face high with me.  He seemed to get a real kick out of it.  Ben thought the chickens were a hoot; he liked pointing them out.  There was a little pig who just ran around all over.  Ben liked looking at the animals, but wasn't super in to touching them.  Luckily most of the goats weren't too big, and Pat made sure none were looking for food too aggressively.

Overall, Ben loved having a ton of open space to run around.  We checked out the various vendors, then decided to get a snack.  By far the best part of the fest for Ben was the free pizza samples.  They were giving out large samples of pepperoni pizza, and of course Ben ate both the pieces Pat and I got.  We sat and he ate and danced.  Later we watched the rides start to warm up.  The fun house was blasting ABBA, and Ben just got down in front of it.  The kid was dancing so hard, he made everyone smile.  Around midday a kid's singer performed on the main stage.  Well we had to go and dance some more.  I knew Ben was wiped when he wanted to sit back in his stroller.

It was a very successful outing.  We got lucky with the best weather I've seen for a Prairie Fest.  It was warm, but not hot.  There was enough cloud coverage to keep from getting too much sun.  And as I said, almost everything was geared towards kids.  I think we'll be making this our plan for the next few years.

So many trucks!

They don't seem as big with Daddy there too.
Climbed in a truck all by himself!
Cheering for the police men
Fire Truck!
Goats!
Petting a goat
I always have to steal pictures from this busy guy
Pizza!!!
Doing a little dance
So much dancing!
-Kim